Saturday, February 18, 2012

What's A Girl To Do?

A fantastic friend of mine requested this subject, so I thought I'd provide practical advice and encouragement for her, and you.

I am going to make a reference. Back in November when I was down visiting Andrew in Florida, I knew that I liked him alot. I knew that and since I was staying with his family, our feelings were hard to hide. Well, I never said anything to him. Until, I just needed to take a walk, and asked him to join me. I voiced my opinion cautiously about our friendship, and we started our courtship that night. He very awkwardly asked, "So, how about, let's court?" And we did for a little while.

However, when you are attracted to a guy, what do you do?
You let him be the man.
God designed men to be the initiators, and the starters.
Pray about God's direction, and grow in friendship with him. However, please do not under-mind his masculinity. Let him man up! :)
If God has a future planned for the two of you, He will work out the details. Don't rush into something. Pray, pray, pray. Don't over think, overreact, or over analyze. Just give it to God, and if need be, spill it to a girl who you trust and can give you godly advice.
Just let him be the man, he will thank you for it.
Trust me. Relax, all is well.
If he likes you now, and has waited this long, a few more days/weeks won't be so bad.
Don't be discouraged if he is distant, encourage him, but don't smother him. Honestly, I don't have much advice. I thought I would, but my best advice: Pray. God knows better than I do, and better than you do.
Read through some books by Dannah Gresh and Leslie Ludy, they phrase all of this way better than I ever could. :)


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